tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2402290315576613822.post1044630879843127613..comments2011-08-02T09:36:39.090-07:00Comments on The Sour The Bitter And The Disordered.: Alpha DogFrancinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02257037996694880062noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2402290315576613822.post-23519117148586598222011-05-22T16:27:48.314-07:002011-05-22T16:27:48.314-07:00honestly, your boyfriend sounds like a gigantic a-...honestly, your boyfriend sounds like a gigantic a-hole. you deserve someone who will treat you like a queen.<br />cinnamon is a wise woman btw, that's sound advice :)<br />i hope you have a fantastic week.XAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2402290315576613822.post-23239724104481104672011-05-22T01:23:43.179-07:002011-05-22T01:23:43.179-07:00Regarding relationships, the most important piece ...Regarding relationships, the most important piece of advice I've ever been given was this:<br /><br />"It's not how he makes you feel, rather how he makes you feel about yourself, that's most important."<br /><br />I live by these words. I'm done torturing myself and I'm done letting others do the same. I live for me now. It's not bad once you give it a try! You're worth it. <3. XXX.Jéannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02603508805500865328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2402290315576613822.post-16166453218645061252011-05-21T23:54:16.654-07:002011-05-21T23:54:16.654-07:00Based on your post... I am not a fan of this S cha...Based on your post... I am not a fan of this S character. You deserve better, someone who doesn't bring you down! That being said, I have to say I understand why you've stayed... I've been in a similar situation, and I know how rough it can be to walk away :/Rowan https://www.blogger.com/profile/15115362790577002241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2402290315576613822.post-2416303652611292292011-05-21T16:06:17.853-07:002011-05-21T16:06:17.853-07:00:/ I don't like being blunt, but I'm going...:/ I don't like being blunt, but I'm going to be.<br /><br />I completely agree with all the people in your life that have told you to fuck the bastard off and go on with your life.<br /><br />This cannot be a healthy relationship and it doesn't seem like it's doing anything to help with your self-esteem issues or helping you to reach your full potential and happiness.<br /><br />I was in a very similar relationship where I always felt like I didn't deserve the other person and that I was lucky to be with him. Despite all the bullshit he put me through, I felt like I didn't deserve to be with him at all, so I should just deal with it because there were so many other things about him that I idolized. I put him on a pedestal all the time at the expense of myself.<br /><br />You should never have to feel bad about yourself or not good enough when you're in a relationship. If you're with someone who makes you feel fat all the time and is a drain on your self-esteem, then you're not with the right person.<br /><br />You could easily find someone who will love you for who you are and treat you well. I know it seems hard, especially when you're dealing with self-esteem issues, but you DO DESERVE BETTER. And you CAN DO BETTER. Believe me, once you get out of a relationship like this, it will be hard. But when you find someone who you truly connect with, who makes you feel good about yourself, and is completely supportive of you and who you are, you will realize how ridiculous your previous relationship was.<br /><br />Sorry this was super long. Hope it doesn't sound too preachy. I can just really relate and don't want someone making the same mistake I made.parisienne.lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10038110081309958560noreply@blogger.com